Why do Men Pay For Sex

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Why do men pay for sex? 

Why does anyone pay for sex?

There were so may different ways that prostitution was attacked and coerced from prison to torture from ancient times, moral codes and more – So why is demand still high?

LPIN stands for Legal Prostitution in Nevada. Nevada is the only State where prostitution is legal and regulated in the United States. I would never take it away from any lady that work as a sex worker as I find fascinating the whole aspect about it. I would like to have society see what we do more as a legit profession and less stigmatized. I do understand that with prostitution comes pimps, sex traffic, under age sex trafficking and more. I do as a citizen whatever I can to help others, just don’t know how to get to the root of it. This is a collective effort in my opinion. I think the problem society see with prostitution is way deeper than trade our time and activities of sex for money, especially in situations where we don’t know if the person being paid is in this line of work voluntary or forced.

That brings me to the fact that I don’t believe, especially for what I have experienced over the years, that every men has an “issue” because they pay for sex. I am a believer that if you think what is going on with every person and their reasons, you should rethink about it. We can only have an opinion if we have walked in someone’s shoes. What is never the case. We must have empathy for people’s reasons and what drives them to pay for sex. I have found and will only give my opinion based in my own experiences that the higher percentage that pay for sex is looking for more than sex itself. They are looking to make a connection and visit someone as if they were visiting a friend.

Men, women, couples pay for sex for all different reasons. What might be absurd for some it’s a normal thing for others. No one should feel less of a desirable person for paying for sex. I have read and talked a lot about it online to see many good comments and many mean comments about someone deciding to pay for a lady or men services.

Thank you so much to all my guests that participate in the questionnaire helping shedding a light to others that might have an opinion about it or are looking to wet their feet on this foreigner waters, but are not sure what they will find.

Please, use the comments section below to respond the questions your self or send me an email to jade@jadecapri.com and we can talk more about it.

GUEST 1 – Single Male

1. What made you decide to pay for sex?
In truth I was not having very much sex in real life, this was the best alternative for me

2. Where you nervous about it? Describe it.
Hell yes, the first couple of times were nerve racking, but I have grown out of it

3. If you have a significant one, do you have sex with your partner?
NA, now, but I have had in the past. Each time I took a break from paying for sex

4. Is having sex with a working girl different from your partner or not? How would you describe both?
Somewhat, I try to treat the working girls the same way I treat women in my life

5. Would you consider or thing your partner consider visiting working girls with you?
I would not rule it out.

6. In what way and does your trips to see courtesans affect your life?
After a session with someone that I can make a connection with I feel uplifted, sometimes euphoric.

7. How many people know about it?
Just the other people online.

8. If distance or finances weren’t an issue, how often would you visit a working girl?
I would be broke, no really maybe twice a month.

9. Would you be ashamed to be open about it if didn’t affect your life in a bad way?
Yes.

10. How does make you feel to visit with a working girl?
Since I view all women the same I feel the same after sex with them.

11. Describe what do you feel about the lady or ladies you visit with?
I love the ladies that I visit. I feel that the LPIN ladies are the ones who are doing it for themselves and not some loser trying to live off of them.

12. What qualities or characteristics are important for you to make a decision on who you will see?
Personality and chemistry.  I do not have any fetish or favorite body part.  I like to feel some sort of connection.

13. Do you think you have a dead line for this adventure?
Yes, with each passing birthday I feel myself slowing down. These days it is one party per day. I do miss those three party days of my youth though.

GUEST 2 – Divorced Male

1. What made you decide to pay for sex ?
After a very messy divorce ending a 16 year marriage, I knew that I wasn’t ready for another relationship but
needed physical contact . I actually went 7 years without sex then I saw cathouse on HBO and thought that’s
a way of having sex and no one gets hurt.

2. Where you nervous about it ?
Actually very nervous didn’t know what to expect. Thought ladies might be victims which I couldn’t handle
what I found was very different.

3. If you have a significant one, do you have sex with your partner?
NA

4. Is having sex with a working girl different from your partner or not?
Sex with working girl is more uninhibited more likely to share fantasy and display true sexually self
and not be judged. Sex with partner when I had one became very routine

5. Would you consider or thing your partner consider visiting working girls with you?
NA

6. In what way does your trips to see courtesans affect your life?
Really don’t like misleading  my family when I visit about were I’m going.

7. How many people know about it?
Only a few people from my regular life.

8. If distance or finances weren’t an issue , how often would you visit a working girl?
Probably once a week.

9. Would you be ashamed to be open about it if didn’t affect your life in a bad way?
No. I wouldn’t be ashamed I’m not hurting anyone just not sure how family would handle it.

10. How does it make you feel to visit with working girl?
Very excited to visit.

11. Describe what do you feel about the lady or ladies you visit with?
Every time I visit I’m more impressed with the ladies so intelligent and business minded.

12. What qualities or characteristics are important for you to make a decision on who you will see?
Must be smart and have a good sense of humor.

13. Do you think you have a deadline for this adventure?
Not really just as long as it’s fun with no drama.
or if I did meet someone in my regular life and started a relationship. I wouldn’t visit if I was involved.

GUEST 3 – Single Male

1. What made you decide to pay for sex?
The big thing was knowing that it was clean, safe, and legal. I could not be assured of that in a casual hookup or even a longer relationship. And I am not in circles where there are a lot of women.

2. Where you nervous about it? Describe it.
I weighed it for a couple of years before I acted. I pulled in and out of the parking lot several times before I actually went in a brothel. I wouldn’t say I was nervous, but I was uncertain or hesitant about what might happen. I just told myself I could walk at any time. (But I didn’t).

3. If you have a significant one, do you have sex with your partner?
N/A

4. Is having sex with a working girl different from your partner or not? How would you describe both?
The sex with a working girl is better than anything I experienced before. That is to be expected since they are professionals, for the most part.

5. Would you consider or thing your partner would consider visiting working girls with you?
N/A

6. In what way and does your trips to see courtesans affect your life?
It sounds funny, but it makes me a better person. It gives me a little extra incentive to work out and eat right. It has given me a greater appreciation for the diversity of women and how they should be treated. You can do heroic things as a working girl. You can help with displaced pets and the needy, just to name a couple of things that the ladies do. So these kinds of courtesans are to be looked up to, not looked down upon.

7. How many people know about it?
In my personal life: zero
LThere are three ladies (one retired) and one monger friend who know enough that they could identify me in real life, but I know they won’t do so.

8. If distance or finances weren’t an issue, how often would you visit a working girl?
Probably every two months or so

9. Would you be ashamed to be open about it if didn’t affect your life in a bad way?
I don’t know who I would talk about it. I don’t know why I would talk to anyone about it outside the LPIN community. That’s not because of a stigma; I just don’t see where it would come up in a conversation. (“Hey, guys, I went to the Brothel last week!” That is not my style.)

10. How does it make you feel to visit with a working girl?
I know the brothel life is supposed to be a fantasy. Ladies and guys use assumed names, dress to the nines, and try to present themselves in the best possible manner. It’s different for me. I feel I can be the person that I truly am (or at least think I am). I can’t be that way in real life, or my job. Just doesn’t work that way.
When I go to the brothel, I am not being judged. In my personal life and my professional life, I am judged all the time. In return, I have learned not to judge the ladies. That’s what I like best about this.

11. Describe what do you feel about the lady or ladies you visit with?
I feel they should be treated with dignity, respect and some serious back rubs. I don’t pull hair or yell “I won! I won!” at the end. I think if I make them feel good, they’ll feel good about me, and we can enjoy our interlude.
Caveat: it’s a business. I’m paying for the opportunity to make them feel good, and feel good about me. We all must keep that fact in mind.

12. What qualities or characteristics are important for you to make a decision on who you will see?
I think I’m still learning, but … mutual respect, a sense of humor, a little playfulness, and honesty.
I know honesty sounds corny in this business, but I really believe the best courtesans are genuine, honest people who are confident in themselves and can convey that to their clients.

13. Do you think you have a dead line for this adventure?
Yes. Probably soon.

GUEST 4 – Single Male

1. What made you decide to pay for sex?
To lose my virginity! It was not gonna happen in my regular life!

2. Where you nervous about it? Describe it.
Very Much! I drove around in car for 30min before I finally went inside!

3. If you have a significant one, do you have sex with your partner?
N?A

4. Is having sex with a working girl different from your partner or not? How would you describe both?
N?A

5. Would you consider or thing your partner would consider visiting working girls with you?
N/A

6. In what way and does your trips to see courtesans affect your life?
It doesn’t other than the friendships I have made with the ladies I have met and friendships with board members!

7. How many people know about it?
No one in my regular life.

8. If distance or finances weren’t an issue, how often would you visit a working girl?
At least weekly at a minimum.

9. Would you be ashamed to be open about it if didn’t affect your life in a bad way?
Depends on who I opened up to . I don’t think I can ever tell a immediate family member….possibly a few close friends.

10. How does it make you feel to visit with a working girl?
Very satisfied. I am making a connection with a lady that would not be happening in my regular life. I have made several close friendships with a select few working ladies.

11. Describe what do you feel about the lady or ladies you visit with?
I feel like we have special friendships. We have a lot in common ( personality wise) as well as sexually. I always treat the ladies with respect as well as being a gentleman while I am with them.

12. What qualities or characteristics are important for you to make a decision on who you will see?
Common interests, sense of humor, not being pushy about whether I will party with them, being able to talk about many subjects.

13. Do you think you have a dead line for this adventure?
NO!!

GUEST 5 – Single Male

1. What made you decide to pay for sex?
Desperation

2. Where you nervous about it? Describe it.
I was extremely nervous. I never thought I would ever find myself in a brothel in my life. And of course, the first time I walked into one, for my first lineup, there were more than twenty ladies, I was like a deer in headlights, I almost ran out the building.

3. If you have a significant one, do you have sex with your partner?
I do not have a significant other, my heart is after someone and I’m still trying to win her heart.

4. Is having sex with a working girl different from your partner or not? How would you describe both?
I had had sex with only one girl in my personal life before my life began in LPIN. It had been so long ago and I had pushed everything about her so far in the farthest regions of my mind that I don’t remember what sex with her was like. But I can say for sure that sex in LPIN has been very very good, given me lots of confidence about myself and my abilities even though walking into a party, I’m always concerned about how well I will perform because even though the sex is basically “for me,” I’m always focused on making sure she’s having a wonderful time. However, when I am with a working girl, it rarely ever feels like it’s something I just had to pay dollars and cents, most of it has felt so natural.

5. Would you consider or think your partner would consider visiting working girls with you?
Honestly, if I get into a relationship, I do believe my adventures in LPIN would come to an end.

6. In what way and does your trips to see courtesans affect your life?
I can honestly say it’s changed my life and I’d like to say that for the most part, it’s changed my life for the better. It’s given me a different perspective on life and motivated me to work towards certain goals that I’m still vying for.

7. How many people know about it?
I’ve only told two people about it. My brother and someone who at work who I thought I could trust after word got out to half the people at my work.

8. If distance or finances weren’t an issue, how often would you visit a working girl?
Most likely, it would be several times a week.

9. Would you be ashamed to be open about it if didn’t affect your life in a bad way?
I really don’t know.

10. How does it make you feel to visit with a working girl?
At first, I feel nervous, very nervous. Sometimes, it just takes a hug for the nervousness to go away and then I start to feel relaxed and then I can become myself again. Once I become myself, I think that is when I almost forget I’m with a working girl.

11. Describe what do you feel about the lady or ladies you visit with?
I have all kinds of emotions running through that at times it feels like I’m just blubbering mess. Could it be because I hadn’t seen her in such a long time? Maybe. But I do know this, when I am with her, I feel like all is right in the world, I am myself and there is no greater feeling than that.

12. What qualities or characteristics are important for you to make a decision on who you will see?
If you’re asking about certain looks I go for, that is the furthest from my mind. I like someone I can talk to, someone I can relate to. I don’t give a damn how she looks, her height, her weight, length or colors of her hair, color of her eyes, if she has tattoos, none of that matters to me. I look for someone for her heart, her soul, her mind.

13. Do you think you have a dead line for this adventure?
At one point, I actually thought I was done with LPIN due to certain situations but eventually I came back. Honestly over the years, I had left LPIN several times but I always came back. Do I have a deadline right now? No, I do not. I think I will be staying in LPIN probably until as mentioned above, I get into a relationship.

GUEST 6 – Married Male

1. What made you decide to pay for sex?
I wasn’t being intimate with my wife at home for long period of times, at least not enough and it was a big adventure to go to a brothel and have sex with someone different! Of course, some is great, some is good and some is not very good. It goes with the exercise.

2. Where you nervous about it? Describe it.
My first time I was extremely nervous! I drove to the brothel and turned around six times before I finally got up the courage to walk through the front door!

3. If you have a significant one, do you have sex with your partner?
Not very often. Maybe every month and half or two months…definitely not enough…at least for me.

4. Is having sex with a working girl different from your partner or not? How would you describe both?
It is much more exciting! Having sex with my wife has become stale. Always the same routine. Sex with a working girl is exciting and usually different with each one! I find it very exciting because they are usually more willing to do different things.

5. Would you consider or thing your partner would consider visiting working girls with you?
No way. She isn’t that interested in sex and way too conservative.

6. In what way and does your trips to see courtesans affect your life?
They basically give me something to look forward to. They also make me the happiest I am these days. It is great fun and gives me something to enjoy and look forward to the next time!

7. How many people know about it?
No one except me and the ladies I see. That is one of the hard parts of it, because of my circumstances I can’t discuss it with anyone else!

8. If distance or finances weren’t an issue, how often would you visit a working girl?
If I lived close to the brothels, I would probably do it about once a week…maybe twice, plus maybe a special party once a month.

9. Would you be ashamed to be open about it if didn’t affect your life in a bad way?
Yes! It would probably have a very bad effect on my life.

10. How does it make you feel to visit with a working girl?
It makes me very happy. I like meeting new ladies and having sex with different ladies. It provides the sex I need and gives me lots of enjoyment! I love establishing a connection with someone and hopefully having some really fun adventures.

11. Describe what do you feel about the lady or ladies you visit with?
Well, I respect most of them for how giving they are and how they make us guys who visit them very happy. I try to keep it at a level where it is just sex.

12. What qualities or characteristics are important for you to make a decision on who you will see?
My perfect lady would be real, smart (good conversation), trustworthy, funny and be very skilled when it comes to sex.

13. Do you think you have a dead line for this adventure?
I probably do. Things are changing in my life and my brothel visiting days may be winding down. It has been a great run, with lots of memories and if and when it ends, I will probably be pretty sad about that.

GUEST 7 – Single Male

1. What made you decide to pay for sex?

Well, I lost someone close to me. That’s actually who the tattoo on my back is for. The other reason: after her I found relationships to be suffocating. Most don’t realize how controlling we are..even when we don’t think we are. I’d much rather not deal with that kind of stress.

2. Where you nervous about it? Describe it.

I was. I remember feeling like an idiot. I was so nervous. With all the stress and pressure I didn’t even enjoy it. I was so concentrated  on the stress I didn’t have the room for feelings of joy.

3. If you have a significant one, do you have sex with your partner? 

If I had different feelings on relationships I’d have a significant partner

4. Is having sex with a working girl different from your partner or not? How would you describe both?

The girls I hang with it feels more like a good close friendship. When I was married it kind of felt more like I had to go through the motions.

5. Would you consider or thing your partner would consider visiting working girls with you?  

If I were to get involved with someone I think we would have to have that unbreakable friendship bond. I think jealously is such a strong feeling…it would literally have to be wiped from our minds

6. In what way and does your trips to see courtesans affect your life?

Since I’m not attached to anyone it’s all gooooooood.

7. How many people know about it?

Me, the courtesan and the cashier.

8. If distance or finances weren’t an issue, how often would you visit a working girl?

I’d say once a month.. but id probably visit the bar a little more than that.

9. Would you be ashamed to be open about it if didn’t affect your life in a bad way?  

Perhaps I’m over thinking this question but we are talking about a Utopia. In order for this question to come about no one could be judgmental. I’m such a private person that I’m not really ashamed.

10. How does it make you feel to visit with a working girl?

I’m pretty picky about who I see. I’m very good at reading people..so I know when someone is genuine or not. Most of the girls I see I’d would get along with outside the hobby.  So I feel at ease.

11. Describe what do you feel about the lady or ladies you visit with?

See question 10.

12. What qualities or characteristics are important for you to make a decision on who you will see?

Obviously looks are important. I do like a lady that can hold her own. Intelligence is a huge turn on for me. Last but far from least. I need a sense of humor.

13. Do you think you have a dead line for this adventure?

No… you told me you would add it later lol.

GUEST 8 – Couple

1. What made you decide to pay for sex?
This was the hardest question for us to answer.  Finally,  we’ve realized it’s because we don’t really feel we are paying “for sex”.  We are paying for an adventure!  An adventure that begins with our decision to take the trip.  An adventure that continues into researching, and looking at photo’s and talking to others who have been on this trip.  An adventure that culminates with meeting a wonderful lady, talking and getting to know someone – and of course a wonderful sexual experience! The adventure continues with amazing memories and topics for us to discuss for months and months…… until the next adventure!  We’ve never considered it paying for sex though.
WE did decide to go to LPIN for our adventure because it was the safest place to do it.

2. Were you nervous about it? Describe it.
Not during the planning and researching stage.  When we got to the door, I was terrified. It wasn’t the kind of “nervous” like we were doing something we shouldn’t do, but more – I’m so excited to to this, but scared at the same time.  Like a Roller Coaster!  Here’s what I wrote after:“I fumbled around for one last blast of lipstick, set off the car alarm getting out,  and my husband had to ring the bell for us to get into the place while I debated running away and hide in the snow.”

3. If you have a significant one, do you have sex with your partner?
Yes!

4. Is having sex with a working girl different from your partner or not? How would you describe both?
Yes, the working girl is female. Beside that, our brothel experiences are purely selfish.  More like a massage or spa service.  Sex with my partner is about the bonding – of course, my husband is always with me, so our experience with paying for sex is bonding for us too.

5. Would you consider or thing your partner would consider visiting working girls with you?
YES!! We consider it often. However, I’m not comfortable with the idea of him “experiencing” another woman so I can’t imagine he’d ever be a participant with the working lady.

6. In what way and does your trips to see courtesans affect your life?
It’s truly a bonding experience for us and provides a little bit of youthful fire to our lives.  Being married for 25 years, we’ve always looked for ways to keep from getting too comfortable.  We enjoy the nervous anticipation of new adventures and that extends into our sex lives.

7. How many people know about it?
Only the people online.

8. If distance or finances weren’t an issue, how often would you visit a working girl?
2 or 3 times a year.  We love that it’s “special” and wouldn’t want it to become part of our regular lives.

9. Would you be ashamed to be open about it if didn’t affect your life in a bad way?
No.  We aren’t ashamed of it now.  We simply treat our trips to LPIN the way we do other aspects of our sex life.  If nobody asks, we don’t talk about it.

10. How does it make you feel to visit with a working girl?
Excited and a bit nervous each time.  Vulnerable.

11. Describe what do you feel about the lady or ladies you visit with?
Both our actual experiences and the ladies we’ve talked with and would love to meet seem to treat this as a business.  A business however in a very personal way.  Like a great masseuse, Realtor or even a Doctor.  There’s a need for intimate information, comfortability and trust even though it’s a business relationship.

12. What qualities or characteristics are important for you to make a decision on who you will see?
Most of the qualities are driven by the wife.  CAN NOT be so young that she could date one of our children (24 or older).  Make me believe she actually enjoys being with a woman, not just doing it for a job.  Physically attractive, but not so beautiful that I’m intimidated or concerned that my husband is only interested in watching the other lady (The Jade Capri concern .  And we never want to feel that this profession is forced or a last resort for the lady.  We don’t want to take advantage of others, and would like this to be mutual for everyone involved.

13. Do you think you have a dead line for this adventure?
Nope.  As long as it’s fun, and we can physically perform, we’ll be looking for new adventures!

GUEST 9 – Single Male

1. What made you decide to pay for sex?
I decided to pay for sex because I was very busy with travel for work. It was easier than finding and maintaining a relationship for me and it is drama free.

2. Where you nervous about it? Describe it.
I was nervous about it my first time. It was new and there was some fear of the unknown.  The experience was wonderful and eased my fears for the future. Now I am only a little bit nervous when I experience a new working girl for the first time and it goes away quickly since I have never had a bad sexual experience with a working girl.

3. If you have a significant one, do you have sex with your partner?
N/A since I do not have a significant partner and am not looking for one.

4. Is having sex with a working girl different from your partner or not? How would you describe both?
Sex with a working girl is different for me than it has been with past partners. It is straight forward. Sex with my past partners has been good, but events of everyday life adds stress when you have a committed relationship.  At this stage of my life, I really enjoy the freedom of being on my own without a partner.

5. Would you consider or thing your partner would consider visiting working girls with you?
If I had a partner, I would not be seeing a working girl.

6. In what way and does your trips to see courtesans affect your life?
My trips to see courtesans for me are a wonderful, stress free and life affirming experience. I can see new women that catch my eye, although I tend to stay with courtesans I know with whom and have built up a comfort level.

7. How many people know about it?
I tell most of my friends since I am not cheating on a partner and I don’t feel anything is wrong with visiting working girls. The people I don’t tell about it tend to be people that I am not close to on a personal level and I feel it is not their business what I do in my personal life.

8. If distance or finances weren’t an issue, how often would you visit a working girl?
I would most likely visit a working girl once a week if distance and finances were not an issue.

9. Would you be ashamed to be open about it if didn’t affect your life in a bad way?
No, I have never been ashamed to be open about visiting working girls.

10. How does it make you feel to visit with a working girl?
The working girls I visit make me feel special and that I can say anything to them without fear of disapproval. They are skilled lovers and some I consider to be friends even outside the business relationship.

11. Describe what do you feel about the lady or ladies you visit with?
Not all ladies I visit with are the same. Some I visit are a wonderful sexual experience and nothing more, while some I visit I feel a more emotional connection with as well as an exciting sexual experience.

12. What qualities or characteristics are important for you to make a decision on who you will see?
I have always been attracted to women with brains who are confident and strong women. I tend to be attracted to women with curves, but not exclusively. I like women who are funny and sweet. I also tend to gravitate to women I view as being exotic.

13. Do you think you have a dead line for this adventure?
I don’t feel I have a self imposed deadline for this adventure. I intend to continue is as long as I am physically and financially able to.

 

Comments 1

  1. Interesting Blog!!!
    1. So Hmm! First I never thought I would actually pay for sex. However, life changes and events change both attitudes and circumstances. Pre medical conditions and a long drought without sexual encounter or intimacy changes a lot of things. I also didn’t want to complicate my life with complicated consequences.
    2. You bet! No sex for 16 years plus medical issues , would it turn out to be more disheartening? However, the desire to have touch, feel, and goose bumps once again became worth the risk. Then fate was on my side and my soul connected with someone who understood it all!! Maybe Their experience, mabe their background, maybe the full moon? Maybe it just was meant TOBE!
    3. I have a lifelong partner. but my medical issues made it extremely difficult to continue with that part of our life. Our relationship changed from intimacy to best friends and life encountering partners. Expectations from both of us changed as time passed on.
    4. Having sex with a working girl was like having sex for the first time was exhilarating, a little intimidating, and filled with new emotions. Emotions of Joy and emotions of bewilderment. At the same time it seemed very harmonizing.
    5. Probably not in the cards.
    6. Wow! I don’t know about Courtesans but I do know the “ONE” I did encounter was a soul touching experience. There again don’t know if that’s way it was supposed to be but it turned out to be very harmonizing. If you believe in destiny ; it’s just sometimes feels the stars align. No Drama! No ambiguity, just total sensual sharing. However my age may make my aspirations different than others.
    7. NO ONE!!!
    8. How often ? Life gives us all different circumstances. If the “FORCE IS WITH YOU” you can be the energizer bunny and forge thru lots of tribulations. However, when the mind and body are out of harmony we need to bring it back in sink. So that maybe several times in one week or couple times in six months. Our energy cycles change just like the batteries in our car, 30 days of 20 below zero can kill a battery. I think I’m about the same!
    Finances can be an issue depending on where you are in life and or your profession. Hopefully it’s not the biggest obstacle.
    9. II work with clients all the time and try to keep their best interest at heart.
    In matters of the heart sometimes confidently is a better virtue.
    10. I don’t feel I’m just visiting a working girl. As with my clients their is always an enjoyment to see them and work with them to reach their goals.
    Each client I have has different needs and goals and their self worth and success is depending on them reaching their goals. I don’t think a Courtesan that understands her occupation thinks much differently. I’m sure there are those that have been and are in the profession that are at that level. I just Thank my lucky stars I found one one the top of her game!
    11. Wow this is a Biggy! A Friend, a confidant, maybe even a soulmate that somewhere in the past our souls touched. I genuinely hope that life treats them well and they have lots of love and joy in there life. There are many slang terms for people in their profession but the one I met didn’t fit any of those images. She was a true “giver” , her thoughts, her compassion, her passion, and sincerity.
    12. I took a long time to decide to whom I wanted to step out of my world and into another. The internet allowed me to see interactions that 10 years ago would not have existed. After about 2 years of annalysing situations and people I reached out to test the waters. Not sure how or why I was so lucky to share experiences with someone so so special. Maybe it was in the stars!
    The qualities I was attracted to were : First someone that presented themselves as a lady, Attractive, well prortioned and have a nice booty! (Wow , was I lucky!). Hopefully affectionate, sensual, and beautiful eyes.
    A smile ( no sour puses!). And a glow that radiated from being.
    13. Deadline?. Just hope it’s ongoing and I’m able to keep some harmony in my life.

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